THE SAME WAY YOU REACH OUT TO PEOPLE, THEY CAN REACH OUT TO YOU
We live in a world that constantly talks about connection—about community, friendship, fellowship, and support. Yet ironically, many people are walking around feeling disconnected, unappreciated, and unseen. We send messages that go unanswered, make calls that go unreturned, and pour into people who never seem to pour back. And while it’s noble to love selflessly, it’s also necessary to recognize a vital truth: the same way you reach out to people, they can reach out to you. That simple realization is both freeing and sobering. It reminds us that healthy relationships require reciprocity—not perfection, but balance. It’s a call to maturity, discernment, and self-respect. Because no matter how much you love people, you cannot be the only one keeping the connection alive. Love Is a Two-Way Street In 1 John 4:11, Scripture says, “Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” Notice that love moves in both directions. It’s a flow, not a funnel. Real love isn’t just rece...