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THE POWER OF NO

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  We live in a world where saying "yes" is often seen as a virtue. We say yes to extra responsibilities, yes to social obligations, yes to things that drain us emotionally, spiritually, and physically—just to avoid conflict, disappointment, or the fear of missing out. But here’s the truth: if you don’t learn to say no, you may lose yourself in a cycle of exhaustion, burnout, and even spiritual death. Many people are dying—not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually—because they have not mastered the art of saying no. Their energy is depleted, their joy is stolen, and their purpose is clouded. Learning to say no is not just a suggestion; it's a necessity for survival. The Heavy Cost of Yes Every time you say yes to something, you are saying no to something else. Yes to a late-night work project might mean no to family time. Yes to an extra ministry obligation might mean no to your personal prayer life. Yes to pleasing people might mean no to pleasing God. Jesus sa...

THE HARD TRUTH ABOUT BEING UNHOUSED

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  To be without a home is to live in a constant state of uncertainty. The days are filled with searching for shelter, food, and safety. The nights bring vulnerability—exposed to the cold, to danger, to the judgment of others. Many unhoused individuals are not just struggling financially but are also battling unseen wounds—mental health challenges, trauma, and loss. Contrary to stereotypes, homelessness does not have one face. It affects families, veterans, young adults, and even those who once had stable lives but were met with unexpected hardships—job loss, medical bills, domestic violence, or a system that failed them. Living Unhoused: The Daily Struggles The Search for Shelter – Many spend their days looking for a safe place to sleep, often moving between shelters, cars, or doorways. Access to consistent housing is a daily challenge. Finding Food – Hunger is a constant battle. Soup kitchens and food pantries provide relief, but they are not always accessible. Staying Safe – The ...

COME WITH ME ON A FORTY DAY FEAST

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  Have you ever felt stuck in your spiritual life, like you're just going through the motions? Maybe you pray, read your Bible occasionally, and go to church, but deep down, you crave something more—something real.

THE ONE THING THAT COULD CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOREVER

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  What Does Grace Look Like? Grace is the unmerited favor we extend to ourselves and others. It looks like compassion in the face of imperfection, forgiveness when mistakes are made, and kindness without conditions. It’s letting go of harsh judgment and choosing empathy, even when it feels undeserved. Grace is patient, allowing others and ourselves the space to grow, heal, and change. It’s soft, but never weak—choosing understanding over blame and hope over resentment. How Can You Provide Grace for Yourself? Practice Self-Compassion: Acknowledge your flaws and struggles without self-condemnation. Speak kindly to yourself, as you would to a dear friend. Release Perfectionism: Allow yourself to make mistakes without letting them define you. Celebrate progress, not just perfection. Rest Without Guilt: Embrace rest and self-care as essential, not indulgent. Permit yourself to step back when needed. Forgive Your Past: Accept your humanity and let go of regrets that hold you captive. Gra...

THE DISEASE OF BEING AFRAID

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Fear is a universal emotion. It creeps into our hearts and minds, often disguised as concern, caution, or doubt.  Over time, it can grow unchecked, consuming our thoughts, dictating our actions, and holding us hostage.  This "disease of being afraid" is a spiritual, emotional, and mental attack that leaves us weakened and paralyzed.  Yet, Hallelujah, there is a cure!  The answer is not found in human strength or temporary fixes—it is found in turning to God, the Almighty, the one true source of hope and healing. The Reality of Fear Fear manifests in many forms: Fear of failure, which whispers, “You’re not enough.” Fear of rejection, which tells you, “You’ll never be loved.” Fear of the unknown, which paralyzes you with uncertainty. These fears might seem natural, but when left unchecked, they evolve into a disease that infects our joy, disrupts our peace, and distances us from the abundant life God intends for us. The Bible warns us not to succumb to fear. 2 Timothy ...

I MISS YOU!

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Have you ever felt the weight of someone’s absence in your life so deeply that it makes you pause and reflect on the impact they had? Missing someone is more than just longing for their presence—it’s a testament to the love, connection, and influence they’ve had on your heart. When we miss someone, we often think about the good times: the laughter, the shared moments, the conversations that lifted our spirits. But even more than that, missing someone can awaken a deeper understanding of what truly matters—our relationships, the people we hold close, and the love that ties us together. In the silence of absence, we are often reminded of the value of presence. If you're in a season of missing someone today, whether it’s a friend, family member, or loved one, know that it's okay to feel the ache. That feeling is a reminder of the depth of the bond you shared. And though they may not be with you physically right now, the beauty of love is that it transcends space and time. Love is ...

SACRED MEMORY

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In a world that seems to move faster with each passing day, the concept of memory often gets reduced to fleeting snapshots, quickly forgotten and replaced by the next urgent demand. Yet, within the sacred texts, we find a different perspective on memory—one that is not merely about recalling the past but about connecting with the divine, preserving identity, and understanding purpose. The Power of Remembrance The Bible repeatedly calls us to remember. In Deuteronomy 6:12, God warns the Israelites, “be careful that you do not forget the LORD, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” This call to remembrance is not just about recollecting historical events; it's about recognizing God's faithfulness, His enduring presence, and the lessons He teaches through our experiences. Memory, in this sacred sense, is an act of worship. When we remember what God has done, we reaffirm our trust in Him, and our faith is strengthened. It's a way of anchoring ourselves in th...