TAKING CONTROL OF WHO I AM

In life, we often encounter words or labels that others use to describe us. 

These words can shape how we see ourselves and influence our actions and decisions. 

However, it's important to recognize that we have the power to reject these labels and define ourselves on our own terms.

Think about the times when someone has said something that made you feel small or limited. 

Maybe it was a teacher who called you "shy" or a friend who said you were "not good enough." 

These words can stick with us, affecting our self-esteem and confidence.

But here's the thing: we don't have to let others define us. 

We can draw a line through those words and say, "No, you don't get to tell me who I am." 

Visualize yourself standing tall, crossing out each limiting label with determination and resolve.

It's not just about rejecting negative labels, though. 

It's also about embracing the qualities and values that make us unique and proud. 

Take time to reflect on the things you like about yourself—the strengths, passions, and quirks that make you who you are.

Write down these positive attributes and affirmations, and keep them close as reminders of your worth and potential. 

These are the words that truly define you, not the ones imposed by others.

But remember, self-definition is an ongoing process. 

It's about continually reaffirming our identity and resisting the pressure to conform to others' expectations. 

People may still try to label us, but we have the power to choose how we see ourselves.

Trust in your own judgment and intuition. 

Believe in the validity of your own experiences and feelings.

 Surround yourself with people who support and uplift you, rather than trying to mold you into their image of who you should be.

In the end, the most important thing is to stay true to yourself.

 Embrace your authentic self, unapologetically and wholeheartedly.

Draw that line, speak your truth, and let your light shine brightly in a world that's better off with your unique presence.